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"Gray's discovery is simple: men and women are fundamentally different in the way they solve problems. For men, problems are there to be solved, alone if possible - like a handyman. However, women see problems as an occasion for communication. Women look for contact with other people to talk to about their problems. But men withdraw.
This difference in the relationship is the basis of countless misunderstandings that can lead to the end of the relationship."